A Tribute to My Fellow Kinky Folk

July 24, 2017 Ava Zhang

After more than half a decade of training slaves from many corners of the globe, My journey into Mistressdom would not have been possible without the bold, passionate, and talented women I have met along the way. Each of the following Dominatrices/BDSM educators have contributed to My knowledge of BDSM with their guidance, friendship, and compassion. Some of them have been living this lifestyle for decades, devoting their life to their craft and educating others on the art of kink. Some have even been kind enough to invite Me into their immaculately appointed playspaces, allowing Me to use their facilities and inspiring Me to design My own one day. If you ever find yourself in any one of their territories, do reach out to them for training, discipline, and education.

-CALIFORNIA

San Diego: Mistress Porcelain Midnight

Los Angeles: Mistress Nicolette, Mistress Lucy Khan, Ms. Kaila Yi, Mistress An Li, Mistress Damiana Chi, Mistress Jezebel Chi, Justine Cross, Mistress Kiko,

San Francisco: Mistress Morgana, Domina Yuki, Domina Colette, Mistress Lillian, Mistress Ophelia Margaux, Mistress Vivienne Vai, Mistress Eva Sterling, Dominatrix Carmen

-NEW HAMPSHIRE

Mistress Molly

-NEW YORK

Mistress Lucy Sweetkill and Mistress Dia Dynasty of La Maison du Rouge, Mistress Ariana, MarcusLikesIt, Yin Q , Mistress Paige, Troy Orleans, Mistress Blunt

-WASHINGTON DC

Mistress Tyler

-CANADA

Toronto: Lady Azelle

-LONDON, UK

Goddess Maya Liyer

-PARIS, FRANCE

Domina M

-HONG KONG

Mistress Euryale

-SINGAPORE

Ms. Amber, Mistress Estella

-MANILA, PHILIPPINES

Domina Fire, Mistress Joyen

Farewell Lauren Bacall, My Kind of Woman

September 12, 2014 Ava Zhang

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I must take My leather gloves off and bid farewell to one of My favorite actresses of all time -- the unbelievably sexy, one-of-a-kind Lauren Bacall who passed away this last month. Ever since I saw her in To Have and Have Not, I was swept away by her irresistible femininity, her take-no-prisoner approach to seduction, and her unapologetic straightforwardness. Her inimitable style embodied class, yet hints at a masculine undertone to complement her tough broad demeanor. Bold, elegant, and with a stunning face that melts and kills, she was a Dominatrix in My book. They just don't make actresses like her anymore. Her no-BS and in-your-face attitude, mixed with her poisonous charm belong to a bygone era. She possessed both sophistication as well as a rawness about her that made her human and vulnerable.

She was My kind of Woman. Rest in peace.

Below is My favorite Lauren Bacall scene, from her movie with Humphrey Bogart To Have and Have Not.

It brilliantly illustrates the power that Women have over men.

What I Look for in a Submissive Male

August 26, 2014 Ava Zhang

I love submissive men. I have had the pleasure of being served by men from around the world, of all backgrounds and age groups, and I feel immensely excited whenever I receive a letter from a new sub. In My ever elitist opinion, I consider My subs to be the cream of the crop (pun intended!). They are all exceptionally well behaved, polite to a fault, fiercely intelligent, well educated, successful and driven, and they all live to please and serve a worthy Woman.

Do you think you have what it takes to serve Me?

The Mind of the Cuckold Explained: History, Culture, Psychology

August 13, 2014 Ava Zhang

"A man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh...What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate". (Matthew 19:3-8)

...unless the man throws away his basket of stones and encourages his wife to commit adultery.

Have you ever fantasized about seeing your wife or girlfriend with another man? Do the thoughts of her cheating on you, having fantastic sex with other men, and coming home to tell you about it arouse you? Do you want to understand why you feel this way?

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