The Eastern Question: Why do subs Love Asian Dommes?

November 25, 2014 Ava Zhang

An Asian Dominatrix is a seductive mixture of beauty and mystery for Caucasian men, who make up 90% of My submissives. An Asian Domme is a fetish within a fetish. There are men who wish to submit to Women...and then there are men who specifically wish to submit to Asian Women. Why?

Men with an "Asian fetish" consider Asian Women to be extremely attractive--physically and mentally. Even before I was a full-fledged FemDomme, I was showered with attention from Western men who absolutely adored My petite physique, My soft black hair, My silky-smooth skin, My superior intellect and My refined mannerisms as result of My Chinese upbringing.

Farewell Lauren Bacall, My Kind of Woman

September 12, 2014 Ava Zhang

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I must take My leather gloves off and bid farewell to one of My favorite actresses of all time -- the unbelievably sexy, one-of-a-kind Lauren Bacall who passed away this last month. Ever since I saw her in To Have and Have Not, I was swept away by her irresistible femininity, her take-no-prisoner approach to seduction, and her unapologetic straightforwardness. Her inimitable style embodied class, yet hints at a masculine undertone to complement her tough broad demeanor. Bold, elegant, and with a stunning face that melts and kills, she was a Dominatrix in My book. They just don't make actresses like her anymore. Her no-BS and in-your-face attitude, mixed with her poisonous charm belong to a bygone era. She possessed both sophistication as well as a rawness about her that made her human and vulnerable.

She was My kind of Woman. Rest in peace.

Below is My favorite Lauren Bacall scene, from her movie with Humphrey Bogart To Have and Have Not.

It brilliantly illustrates the power that Women have over men.

What I Look for in a Submissive Male

August 26, 2014 Ava Zhang

I love submissive men. I have had the pleasure of being served by men from around the world, of all backgrounds and age groups, and I feel immensely excited whenever I receive a letter from a new sub. In My ever elitist opinion, I consider My subs to be the cream of the crop (pun intended!). They are all exceptionally well behaved, polite to a fault, fiercely intelligent, well educated, successful and driven, and they all live to please and serve a worthy Woman.

Do you think you have what it takes to serve Me?

The Mind of the Cuckold Explained: History, Culture, Psychology

August 13, 2014 Ava Zhang

"A man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh...What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate". (Matthew 19:3-8)

...unless the man throws away his basket of stones and encourages his wife to commit adultery.

Have you ever fantasized about seeing your wife or girlfriend with another man? Do the thoughts of her cheating on you, having fantastic sex with other men, and coming home to tell you about it arouse you? Do you want to understand why you feel this way?

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